6 Ways to Get People to Like You!

We as Social Network Marketers know that the Social Sites are very important to us, especially if we are going to connect with people.This discussion is about learning how to get people to like us more and know how to talk with them. Many years back i hitch hiked all over the countryside and learned to live on the streets for several years and it was my life style. Yes, back in those days i found rides fairly easy and i kept appearance clean looking. I always found side jobs and washed dishes at restaraunts for meals and to stay a night in a motel to get cleaned up, and a few bucks in my pocket. I even joined a carnival one time to get a free ride to Colorado, and settled there for aq couple of years with my brother. I had found a job there and worked until the business went bankrupt and was without work a couple of weeks and decided to move back to home town and found work there. My Mother had always kept me in her prayers and was worried sick about me, while i was on my journey out there in the streets. I sat down and told her about my adventures and she told me i should write a book someday, and i told her it would definately be a great big book if i did...lol...I got a job as a RC Cola Routesales person and later become a BreadMan. And i had to deal with the public a lot and moody managers in the stores.There are so many people out there with many styles of life and we have no idea what some of these people are going through in their lives. As i lived in Colorado i climbed several times in the mountains and hills and that was an experience climbing these mountains for the first time, climbing up is easier then climbing down. Because climbing upward you can watch your steps and get a better view of things as you climb, but climbing down is more difficult cause cannot find them same steps as climbing up. Just like the saying goes" Everything that goes up, must come down". We have some upper times in our lives, where we feel as though we are on a high about life. But we also have to face the downward slope in life as well, and there are many people out there that may be down and out in life and we need to be sensitive to what we say to them. So, i guess i can say i am a Professional at knowing about people and trying to be the "Analyzer", not to judge people though. I like to study about people and notice their moods and see different problems they face in life and hopefully help them along the way if i can. I donot want to offend anyone if i say some things that may hurt people, and i apologize if i do. But there are some people that just don't care how they look and some people that donot want to dress rightly in the public are they actually look sloppy looking. I wouldn,t want to see some of their homes, because there are home is probably sloppy as well. And i believe a lot of people are just outright LAZY. We all need to look at ourselves and possibly see ourselves in a mirror and make a commitment to be a better person and get our act together and be more responsible. There are many of us that can be better at what we do in our every day walk and if we are trying to be a Business Person we definately need to tighten up. Let us stop being lazy and get off our tails and get more responsible and learn from our mistakes. This is a SERIOUS issue , and we need to get rid of the selfish attitude. If we are going to make our Social Media work AFFECTIVE, we must correct them and that is why i want to give you my 6 ways to get People to Like You!

1. Be GENUINE.Don't say things just to say them, instead ...just be yourself. Nothing beats sincerity.
2. Make great offers ...I don't care what your selling to- everyone loves great value.
3. Be Energetic and Enthusiastic! There's a reason why every gas station and supermarkets in a America sells "Energy Boosters" at their front counter. Most people are burned out and lethargic, so if you're pumped up about what your doing and about what your offering people will "sense" this and gravitate towards you, Immediately!
4. Reveal your own personal flaws and challenges. There's nothing worse than someone who thinks their crap don't stink, "just because". Your prospects WANT to know you're not much different from them and that life punches you in the gut sometimes to. This makes you more human and more REAL. And...more like them.
5. Share good imformation. Think about it, who does,nt like someone who always giving out useful imformation?
6. Let people know you CARE. Gary Halbert once told me, "people don't care how much you know, until they know how much you care". Focus on what you're looking to give, not how much you're looking to get.

Pick a few of these off  this list and put in rotation. You'll get positive response, you'll earn more, and you'll feel a lot better about yourself.

Victor Courville

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